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How to listen to others' suggestion
01:40, 2008-Sep-26
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How to listen to others' suggestion How to listen to others' suggestion, thought privately, a big chunk lay in how others propose the suggestion.
On a construction site near my home, can often see " forbid pouring the rubbish here " Warning sign. But has often occupied various rubbish under warning sign, then " forbid the rubbish upside down " Local for place why rubbish is most.
That is very sorry, the people have not listened to your suggestion.
There are some teachers, often complain present students are too difficult to govern, the natural disposition is stupid and bad, not obedient. Yes, all day such as you " XX does not learn to get out " , " XX homework don't come to school when being handed in " Who likes hearing? If if a classmate stands up at this time, would imitate your tone: "XX you do not give lessons to get out! " I believe any teacher will not listen to this classmate's suggestion, even can reach office neck a crowd of Mr. make this classmate at once.
So how listen to others' suggestion, whom oneself speak really also does not include, must see how mention others.
Certainly, on the other hand even should accomplish " not believing oneself " first a bit more voluntarily by oneself Realm,it is it easy to last place last others. In this way the very easy one listens to others propose. Concrete how do, you look examination make little classmate that copy right away know, they are all very " It is apt to accept the suggestions of others " Person.
We should really study from them hard, because it is advanced to accept this knowledge of the suggestions of others, pass " It is all right to be learned, interrogate, very think, sincere " Wait for several processes. Because we not merely can receive a kind of answer of a person's when the examination, sometimes will receive several people and various editions' answer, then this lets " learnedly" ; Fall into water 3,000, you can only fetch one wooden dipper drink, you want, select correct answer most from it, this needs " Interrogate " ; You begin at this time to think, A monarch's answer is from the key middle school, but this person is last-placed in the key middle school, B monarch's answer though from this school, still not too bad that B monarch studies in the school You will make the judgement, finally, the most key one is to " walk sincerely " ,You should select you to think the most correct answer is filled out above from these answers, in this way, whom you succeed in just listen to others' opinion.
Secondly but don't treat oneself as very much " Personages " ,don't think always it stand high above the masses by oneself,show always I whose shelves every one I afraid of of teacher. Ancient times kings and princes to close one's ears to sincere advice those, or great majority make, think much of one's own mistake very much, because one's own bringing high too, so relative he right away too low, you stand 54,000 apart, their suggestion, how can you hear?
So, how to listen to others' suggestion, it depends on how others think you propose the suggestion, accomplish " Non- self-confident " ,Want make sure too take seriously by oneself, so, you can be smooth listen to others' suggestion!
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